There’s something about presidents and an infatuation with pee that we can’t shake. First, Trump, together with his complete “pee tape” scandal, and now Jair Bolsonaro, the homophobic president of Brazil who tweeted a specific video that capabilities — amongst different things — a person in a jockstrap having a chunk of a bath. A golden bath. You know, a touch something to boost the shine of the hair! In some other tweet, Bolsonaro requested what golden showers were. Well, sis, I happy you asked for it.
To put it definitely: a golden shower is an act in which one individual pees on every other — or more than one, as we’ve seen it. It falls under a trendy umbrella of watersports that is a kink that includes playing with urine. Sometimes that’s as simple as a golden bath, now and again, it consists of ingesting the liquid, and in other instances, it’s urinating while having intercourse. And at the same time, as it may all be checked out as “sexual play,” as simply one part of a sexual revel in, it can also stand by myself. Someto be peed on, and there’s nothing incorrect with that.
Here, we had three queer kinksters, who’re familiar with watersports, speak to us about their personal reports, give us hints on what to do, and why, precisely, humans submit to warm, golden streams.
Chris Hawke – Founder of GBU Sex Parties in New York
I began in watersports approximately 15 years in the past. There turned into this man I used to surf with — you by no means recognize whether or not these surfer guys are gay, bi, or what. Anyway, we came from browsing once, and he says, “Hey, do you want to head again to your place, smoke a joint, and pee on each different?” I didn’t recognize if he turned into kidding or if he was going to bash me, or if he became baiting me. So I just went along with it like, “Yeah, positive something.”
We went back to his house, and he made this bong out of tinfoil. We both drank like a gallon of water and talked — not approximately that, however pretty much man stuff — and then we went into the bathroom, laid some towels down, put on top of every other, and merely comfy and started out peeing. It turned into such a notable feeling because I felt like I changed into melting into him. It changed into lifestyles converting occasion for me. So I started out going online and bringing it up to guys and explored it extra.
I’ve observed that there are reasons people are into watersports. One is the dominant/submissive direction in which men need to pee on you to degrade you, which is the intimacy route. Because while someone is status there and has secure enough to pee, and that fluid that has been at some stage in their whole body … you’re taking that during, or it’s getting on you or whatever … I locate that very intimate and erotic. So that’s the course that I’m on. But the activity is the precise equal.
I started out doing my events in like 2000 because I moved to New York, and I couldn’t locate any piss events for younger hot men. So that’s why it changed into known as GBU Kegger, which stood for Golden Boys USA. But over time, it has developed to just being an intercourse party with young, warm guys that’s probably approximately 20 percentage men into watersports.
Tim, Mr. Michigan Leather 2018
I could guess I got into watersports about six or seven years ago. It began off while I was playing with a sir, and he did a bit with it. Some guys have also asked me online to drink my very own in motion pictures and stuff. It’s a bit casual for me. It’s now not my primary kink. I’m greater into bondage. However, I like the humiliation factor of having pissed on. Some men get off on it. My companion loves ingesting from the faucet [meaning right from the dick] and receives off on the actual act of swallowing it, and I understand that’s the case for a whole lot of human beings.
You need to make sure whoever is imparting the piss is appropriately hydrated and liquids a variety of water: beer and stuff they could also do. However, you need to ensure they’ve been consuming a lot of water to the type of water down the piss. If you take it early inside the morning or from a dehydrated person, it’ll have a sour or sturdy flavor. The clearer the piss is, the better for those styles of things.
If I’m going to play with someone new, this is all something I would possibly talk about during the “into?” communique; however, if it’s a person I know, it’s something I may convey up at some stage in a play. I’ve in no way skilled any sort of stigma. I’m sure that’s available even though. For a few humans, it’s merely a flip-off, but I haven’t ever gotten anything too dramatic.
I had my first enjoy, possibly approximately ten years ago, when I first forayed into kink and BDSM. I had a sexual accomplice who has been a part of the community for quite a bit of time, and I become curious about his reviews and how that might be part of our reports collectively. One of the things he said he changed turned into piss, so we explored that a touch similarly. At one point, it becomes one of all my number one kinks, however now not a lot now, but that sincerely comes down to the availability (or lack thereof) of partners who’re involved. I generally deliver it up after having conversations with companions, and some folks say that fluids and piss are a no-no in every regard — that also can usually consist of even peeing in front of each other.
In addition to being a kinky person in my personal life, I speak about kink and teach on sexual health awareness on day by day basis. The first communique is about consent. The 2nd is about piss and protection, which human beings don’t frequently think about because we piss every day. But while some other man or woman is factored into the mix, mainly when it can be going into their mouth, over their face, or a few locations that may be greater touchy, we should be careful. Even though it’s a low threat for HIV or STIs, bacteria within the circulate may be bacteria. When it’s a person who does drugs — and caffeine is also a drug — those tablets might even come out within the circulation and eating, which can cause troubles. So it’s important to be careful.